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Grief does not end. What changes is not whether grief exists, but how it lives in the body, the brain, and daily life. Most people are told that grief gets easier with time. What they are rarely told is what that actually means.

Returning to work after a loss is not just a scheduling decision. It is a neurological transition. Grief affects attention, memory, reaction time, and stress tolerance, all of which shape performance, especially in high-stakes roles. Most people want to return and contribute. When workplaces understand the cognitive realities of grief, they protect not only the employee, but performance, safety, and retention.

Adults often underestimate children’s capacity to understand grief and overestimate the harm of honest conversations about death. Understanding how children experience grief requires understanding how their brains develop, how meaning is constructed over time, and how attachment and safety shape emotional processing.

Grief is often spoken about as a process that unfolds naturally over time. For many people, this is true. But for others, grief does not soften. It intensifies, stagnates, or becomes all-encompassing.This is often described as complicated grief (also called prolonged grief disorder).complicated grief is not a failure of grieving. It is a sign that the brain and nervous system have been overwhelmed by the loss.

In the weeks or months after a loss, many people are encouraged to “find support.” Often this suggestion comes without explanation, as if all support is interchangeable. It is not. From a neurobiological standpoint, the wrong kind of support can intensify stress responses, while the right kind can help stabilize a nervous system that has been thrown into chaos…

As the calendar slides from October into November, the air shifts. cooler mornings, longer nights, and a collective turn toward memory. Across Mexico and much of Latin America, this time marks Día de los Muertos, the Day of the Dead: a celebration that defies silence, fear, and the Western discomfort with death. It’s not Halloween, though the timing often confuses outsiders. It’s not a festival of horror or morbidity. It’s a reunion! A vibrant, sensory conversation between the living and the dead.

The New Year—a time often synonymous with fresh starts and hopeful resolutions—can feel profoundly different when you’re grieving the loss of a loved one. While the world around you celebrates the promise of new beginnings, you might find yourself grappling with the ache of their absence and the uncertainty of moving forward without them.

If you're grieving, it can be hard to find comfort in what’s meant to be a joyful time. And if you're supporting someone who is grieving, it can be challenging to know how best to help. The good news is that there are strategies for both grievers and those who support them to make the holiday season a bit more manageable.

Grief is a universal experience, yet no two people grieve in exactly the same way. The nature of the loss can significantly shape how one processes and copes with grief. One of the most defining factors is whether the loss was sudden or anticipated. Both types of loss bring their own unique challenges and emotions, and understanding these differences can help in navigating the grieving process.

The loss of a loved one is one of life’s most profound challenges. It brings with it a whirlwind of emotions—sorrow, confusion, and sometimes even anger. Among these emotions, guilt and regret often stand out, casting a long shadow over the grieving process. These feelings can be overwhelming, making it difficult to move forward. But understanding them is the first step toward healing.

Unlike conventional grief that follows a loss, anticipatory grief allows individuals to begin the process of mourning while the person is still alive. While it might seem that this early grieving could ease the transition after the loss, anticipatory grief brings its own set of challenges and emotions

In today's fast-paced professional environment, the well-being of employees has never been more crucial. Among various aspects of workplace wellness, the ability to support employees through grief is often overlooked.

As a widowed mom, this day brings a mix of emotions, but it also offers a chance to celebrate the love, strength, and resilience that define our families. Here’s how I navigate Father’s Day and turn it into a day of honor and remembrance.

Grief, with its crushing weight and unrelenting presence, often seems to leave little room for any other emotions. Yet, in the midst of mourning a profound loss, many people find themselves experiencing moments of joy, laughter, and even happiness. This unexpected intrusion of positive emotions can bring with it a heavy burden of guilt, leaving those in grief feeling conflicted and confused.

Grieving is a profoundly personal experience that can leave individuals feeling vulnerable and isolated. While friends and family often want to provide comfort, their well-intentioned actions can sometimes inadvertently cause more harm than good. Here’s a guide on what not to do ‘ supporting someone who is grieving.

In the labyrinth of human existence, death has always loomed as an enigmatic force, shrouded in mystery and superstition. Throughout history, cultures around the world have crafted intricate beliefs and rituals to navigate the transition from life to whatever lies beyond. In this exploration, we embark on a journey to unravel the intricate tapestry of superstitions surrounding death.

Let me be perfectly clear, widowhood as a whole is quite simply like being waterboarded with gasoline on a regular basis, but filing taxes as a widow is just another circle of hell… at least for me.

The term “Solo Parent” means that you have 100% sole responsibility for every aspect of your family unit. There is no support simply because, your spouse is deceased. Guest Author J. Lewis III gives insight into his experience with parenting after loss.

Grief is a complex and deeply personal experience, often accompanied by a range of emotions and challenges. While many are familiar with the primary loss—the initial event or death that triggers the grieving process—there's another aspect of grief that is equally important yet often overlooked: secondary loss.

In honor of Valentine’s day, I’m spreading the love by featuring a special blog written by my friend, colleague, and podcast co-host, J. Lewis III. He shares with us some beautiful insights on the ways we can honor our loved ones. Read on!

grief is commonly associated with loss and sadness, but it can be profoundly positive as it requires an evolution of self. There is transformative potential to be explored, as the deep relationship between embracing grief and self-fulfillment can lead to personal growth, resilience, and ultimately, fulfillment.

Dealing with the end of life can be difficult, You’re processing the inevitability of your loved one’s death and trying to learn on the fly all the things you’ll need to manage now that the end is in sight. How do you decide which supports to use? what’s available to you? When can you access end of life care? and did you know that something called a “Death Doula” exists? Many think that the only option is Hospice, but let’s take a closer look at what a Death Doula is, and how it differs from Hospice.

Estate planning is like creating a roadmap for your belongings after you're no longer around. It involves making decisions about how you want your assets to be handled and distributed, ensuring your loved ones are taken care of according to your wishes….

Trust me, you're going to want to read this…..

What is a Trust? Well, in terms of Estate planning and Probate, a Trust is a legal way of designating ownership over funds & assets. It is best described by Fidelity as a "fiduciary arrangement that allows third parties or trustees to hold assets on behalf of beneficiaries". Still confused? I don't blame you, let's dig a little deeper…..

Many people know what a Will is, or at least they think they do, but what they don’t know is the other legal pieces that operate in tandem with a Will. It’s called an “Estate Plan” and it can be quite complex. In this 3 part series, we will break down each piece and talk about some tips to make the process as seamless as possible.

I had the unique and incredible opportunity to speak with 5 individuals about their dad and the impact these men had on their lives. While all of the people I spoke to had varying relationships with their fathers, each of them conveyed a fondness and reverence for the values that these men instilled into them. I asked each of them how their fathers shaped who they are as adults, as parents, and as humans, looking to see where the ripples would potentially fall for my own children.

I’ll be completely honest… I have no idea how to start this. So I’ll start it the same way I started every other hurdle I encountered along this grief journey, I just start.

All right recruits! This is it, the stuff you’ve been waiting for! Well, sort of. I mean, you don’t just run right into war without doing a few push-ups first, right? So for this lesson, we’re going to look at things you could do to put yourself in a better place for when you have to get shit done.